Unique Issues of Children in Foster Care
by Charles Snipes | May 24, 2021
Unique Needs of Children in Foster Care
Objectives
~ Explore some unique stressors for the child as well as caregivers
Intro
~ According to 2014 AFCARS data, approximately 53 percent of foster children remain in care for 12 months or more
~ Eighty percent of youth involved with the child welfare system require mental health intervention and services due to developmental, behavioral or emotional issues
~ Excessive amounts of cortisol and chronic HPA-Axis activation disrupts developing brain circuits and increases the risk for stress related disease and cognitive impairment well into the adult years (ACEs)
~ Providing supportive, responsive relationships as early in life as possible can prevent or reverse the damaging effects of toxic stress
ACES
~ Abuse
~ Addiction or mental health issues in the family of origin
~ Abandonment
~ Parent leaving or dying
~ Frequent placement transitions
~ No opportunity to develop a secure attachment
~ Changing schools and friends (can lead to attachment disorders)
~ May be a particular issue for children of substance abusing parents because of repeated unification and separation
~ Loyalty to parents
~ Disempowerment due to failure to consider childâs perspective in agency decisions â May not be a good environment, but in some cases it is at least predictable
Other Potential Factors
~ Low self-esteem
~ Parental/caregiver rejection
~ Stigma
~ Prenatal substance exposure
~ Malnutrition
~ Automatic placement in special education or biased differential diagnosis
~ Cultural differences
~ Cultural variability in child socialization practices â How we want children to behave â How we teach children to behave according to cultural norms
~ School assignments (such as family trees, autobiographies, or baby picture contests) and language (ânaturalâ or ârealâ instead of âbirthâ parent; âchildren of their own and an adopted childâ) that isolates them and affects their school experience.
Other Factors
~ Birth family visits
~ Inconsistency
~ Re-awakening the grief process
~ Anger/guilt of being taken away
~ Depression and sadness with departure (or no-show)
~ Confusing/conflicting messages between foster and birth parents
~ Saying goodbye to foster family for reunification
~ Fears about reunification
Disrupted Attachment
~ Problems with affect regulation and dissociation
~ Lack of impulse control and attentional problems
~ Controlling stance used in peer and caregiving relationships (role inappropriate parent child interactive behavior)
~ Cognitive impairments
~ High Risk for Oppositional Defiant Disorder and aggression in middle childhood and low self esteem and dissociation in adolescence
~ Tend to repeat the cycle
~ When the child is developing a new attachment, particularly after disruption, setbacks can occur rapidly and have serious consequences because it represents a current loss and re-ignites the prior unresolved losses.
Special Issues in Kinship Care
~ Interrupt relative caregiversâ plans, priorities, space and privacyâand how this can contribute to their feelings of loss (grief) and ambivalence
~ Relative caregivers may also have feelings of guilt about and anger toward the biological parent
~ Biological parents trying to fudge the rules or take advantage of the relative caregiver
ADDRESS
~ People hold preconceived notions about others based on
~ Age
~ Disability
~ Dress and Presentation
~ Religion and Spirituality
~ Ethnicity and Culture
~ Social Class
~ Sexual Orientation
~ How might this impact foster parentâs expectations?
~ How might this influence foster childrenâs expectations?
~ How can we promote a more culturally sensitive and welcoming environment?
ADDRESS contâŚ
~ Personal, family and cultural history shape schema
~ Can I trust you?
~ Will you help or harm me (or both)?
~ Do you understand me?
~ How might each of your assumptions affect current interactions?
~ How might the way your system is organized and the role you play in your system, contribute to or disconfirm this personâs assumptions about âyouâ?
~ Behavior is communication. What behaviors might a child exhibit who
~ Believes they cannot trust?
~ Believes they may be harmed?
~ Does not feel they are understood?
Attachment Intervention: CRAVES
~ Consistency: Be the go-to person that responds in an attentive, predictable manner
~ Responsiveness: Provide developmentally appropriate physical, emotional and cognitive support including learning to label feelings, triggers and warning signs and developing coping and distress tolerance skills
~ Attention (Proactive)
~ Validation/Empathy: Try to see the situation from the childâs perspective
~ Encouragement to explore and attempt new things
~ Support when things go wrong or through scaffolding
Summary
~ Young traumatized childrenâs reactions and behaviors are best understood in the context of relationship.
~ Foster care is an active intervention with the goal of helping the young child to recover from their traumatic experience, not just a âplace to stay.â
~ The foster/resource parent is an essential partner in the recovery of the young child.
~ Transitions for young children should be carefully planned